Your proposal will be one of the most exciting moments in your life and hopefully you’ll only do it once! This year, proposing should be all about creating a meaningful and memorable experience that reflects your partnership. With more emphasis on your shared style and your partner’s personality, proposals don’t need to be traditional anymore. Whether you’re planning a grand gesture or a quiet, intimate moment, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Here’s how to plan the perfect proposal that will make your partner say the biggest ‘yes’ possible.
Talk to family and friends
Before you dive into the nitty gritty and get carried away with planning alone, consider talking to your closest family and friends. They know your partner best and can be a huge help in planning the surprise. Your loved ones can help to gather details like your partner’s ring size, style preferences, or even offer ideas for the proposal itself.
Some couples prefer to follow tradition and consult with the bride’s father before popping the question. It’s a small gesture that shows respect and can make the moment more meaningful.
Choose the perfect ring
The engagement ring is perhaps the most important step! In 2025, coloured stones are making a big splash. If your partner loves a touch of the old-world charm, a vintage-style ring could be just the thing. Alternatively, bold choices like sapphires and emeralds are becoming more popular for those who want something different.
Whether you go classic or contemporary, make sure the ring reflects your partner’s style. Make sure to consider all your options, from timeless solitaire designs to trendy multi-stone settings. It’s worth taking time to find perfect engagement rings that leave a lasting impression.
Pick the right spot
Choosing the perfect spot to propose might be more important than the ring. Should you go for something public, like a grand gesture in front of a crowd? Perhaps you’d prefer a more intimate, private moment in one of your favourite restaurants. There’s currently a growing trend towards ‘quiet proposals’ where couples choose to share the special moment in a peaceful setting, away from the eyes of others.
Whether it’s a quiet beach at sunset or even your favourite hiking spot, make sure the location feels special to both of you. This is all about creating a memorable experience that speaks to your relationship.
Prepare carefully
Finally, timing is everything, including the seasonality. It’s important to think carefully about the time of year and where you are in your relationship. Is it the right moment in your journey together? Be mindful of any significant dates, such as anniversaries or holidays, that could add magic to the occasion. The opposite is true, too – if your partner has an important work commitment or a funeral coming up, it’s best to avoid proposing too close to those more serious occasions in life.
Spring proposals are full of romance with flowers blooming, but winter can feel much cosier and more intimate. Take the time to think through the moment and make sure you’re both ready.
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