What Are The Best Gemstones For An Engagement Ring?

Shopping for the right engagement ring can be a very difficult thing. It’s a decision that’s vitally important since ideally, you’ll only present one ring; on the other hand, it’s an extremely personal decision that will probably be informed by your own tastes and intuitions as much as any objective criteria.


Before you make the decision, you’ll want a fair understanding of the different gemstones available, and the qualities that they offer. While it might be tempting to stick with the diamond engagement ring as a default, you might find that a change in stone creates a much more personal proposal.


What Are The Best Gemstones For An Engagement Ring?


What gemstones might you consider?

There are scores of options when it comes to gemstones, but a few stand out as especially worthwhile.



Sapphires are often thought of as a blue alternative to diamond, but they actually come in several different hues, with blue just being one. It’s marginally less twinkly than a diamond, but much less expensive.



This purple stone is slightly softer than diamond, and it’s often presented uncut. It’s a great match for silver and rose gold jewellery.



Rubies are famously a very deep red and vary in price and quality according to their origin. Burmese rubies tend to be especially prestigious.



Emeralds aren’t quite as stylish today as they once were, but their iconic greenness does make a great match for women with a taste for vintage fashion, or for green things in general.


What Are The Best Gemstones For An Engagement Ring?


The factors that influence price

The famous four ‘C’s that influence the price of a diamond are salient in the case of other gemstones, too. Let’s run through them.



This unit refers to the size of the gem. The bigger and heavier the gem, the more expensive it is. The correlation isn’t always linear, however; you might see big jumps in value around significant thresholds, like the one-carat mark.



Clarity measures the number of internal defects in the gem, called inclusions. These are tiny cracks, or crystals of a foreign material, which ultimately contribute to a frosted effect. Most diamonds are actually used for industrial purposes; it’s only the clearer ones that find their way into jewellery with red gemstones. This type of jewellery is particularly sought after for its vibrant colour and the unique character each gemstone brings.


What Are The Best Gemstones For An Engagement Ring?



Gemstones will tend to vary slightly in colour – though these variations are nowhere near as obvious as they are with a diamond.



Different kinds of cut will influence the look of the gemstone, and therefore its price. There are a number of different cuts available, and certain gems match better with certain cuts than others.

What about metal?

Certain kinds of gemstone will tend to make a better match with different metals. Therefore, choose the right band after you’ve settled on a stone.



What Are The Best Gemstones For An Engagement Ring?



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